When We Are Told "It's Time to Settle Down"

Most of us desire security and stability in a world that doesn't promise any.

I was three decades and five years old when an acquaintance - a grandfatherly figure I am quite fond of - upon hearing my age candidly suggested that it was time for me to settle down.

I smiled and gently replied, I am settled.

He hesitated for a second before nodding in agreement. Yes, yes, you are quite right, he acceded. I thought I detected a tinge of…